Santo J. Triolo.

The blog

Notes from the back row.

Short essays on the ideas behind The Psychology of Stupid: ego, love, bureaucracy, therapy and why we keep doing what we do.

Mind
From Chapter 2

Why do we buy what celebrities sell?

If nobody admits to falling for celebrity endorsements, why do companies keep paying millions for them? Professor Stona’s first question has an uncomfortable answer.

Coming soon

Mind
From Chapter 9

Are we all a little brain-damaged? Dualism and the bully trap

Why the world keeps splitting into bully and victim, us and them, and why the author thinks it may be built into our DNA.

Coming soon

Therapy
From Chapter 7

The Holy Trinity of Psychotherapy: feel, think, practice

Telling someone not to worry never works. What does work, according to four decades in the therapy room.

Coming soon

Love
From Chapter 15

Unbinding love: what comes after the passion fades

Mother Nature gives us passion, then attachment. Carmela’s story shows what comes next.

Coming soon

Society
From Chapter 18

The Peter Principle and the bureaucracy that eats everything

How organizations promote people to their level of incompetence, then build a system to hide it.

Coming soon

Big Questions
From Chapter 23

What if we are all characters in a hologram?

The class finds out it is inside a book. What does it mean for something to be real?

Coming soon

Mind
From Chapter 2

Why do we buy what celebrities sell?

If nobody admits to falling for celebrity endorsements, why do companies keep paying millions for them? Professor Stona’s first question has an uncomfortable answer.

Coming soon

Mind
From Chapter 9

Are we all a little brain-damaged? Dualism and the bully trap

Why the world keeps splitting into bully and victim, us and them, and why the author thinks it may be built into our DNA.

Coming soon

Therapy
From Chapter 7

The Holy Trinity of Psychotherapy: feel, think, practice

Telling someone not to worry never works. What does work, according to four decades in the therapy room.

Coming soon

Love
From Chapter 15

Unbinding love: what comes after the passion fades

Mother Nature gives us passion, then attachment. Carmela’s story shows what comes next.

Coming soon

Society
From Chapter 18

The Peter Principle and the bureaucracy that eats everything

How organizations promote people to their level of incompetence, then build a system to hide it.

Coming soon

Big Questions
From Chapter 23

What if we are all characters in a hologram?

The class finds out it is inside a book. What does it mean for something to be real?

Coming soon

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